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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-11 03:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #2321 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2321 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
You might be surprised to find out that other people especially real friends do not feel as entitled to your time and attention on their terms, as you convinced yourself they would. You let your imagination run wild and prevent you from doing something you enjoyed and made it your friend's "fault" because obviously they would totally get mad if you posted on the forum while they were waiting for your PM reply. How dare you do anything other than focus on them?!

Anyone who legit would react like that is not your friend. If you were projecting onto them how you would react well then you were in the wrong. Suck it up. Learn and grow. Mature. Make good friends who won't make you feel like you "owe" them your friendship.

It sounds completely ridiculous and illogical what you've put yourself through. You. Nobody did this to you, except you. Own it and move on.

I do sincerely wish you good friendships. Sounds like you're at least still trying so that's great. Don't give in to wild imaginings that have no basis of proof. Friends are good things they aren't out to jump all over you and criticize you.

Me? I'm not your friend. I don't count. I'm criticizing you. You'll live just fine afterward, too. :D

Also, holy wall of text batman. :P