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fandomsecrets2013-05-15 06:34 pm
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Re: It's not the issues that are the problem
(Anonymous) 2013-05-16 07:14 am (UTC)(link)Yes. I understand that some of them truly believed Jews were not considered people, or that killing Jews served some "greater good." I do not agree with them at all, and I will not say what they thought were okay.
"I see how you think or feel this way" allows the other person to know you've thought about their point of view. Then you start discussing why they arrived at their point of view and why your point of view makes sense. Saying "you're wrong!" from the get go rarely works in making people listen to your point of view.
You can say "I understand what you're feeling" /and/ "it is not morally okay to feel this way" at the same time. They are not opposites. They are two different things.