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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-18 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2328 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2328 ⌋

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Re: Ugly. Or something.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-18 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I honestly can't think of a context in which calling someone ugly would be anything other than "unflattering." It's saying that they are objectively and inherently undesirable -- to say nothing of the fact that we live in a society that links moral worth and inherent value to physical attractiveness, especially for women. That's a completely different issue than saying you hate someone because of their behavior toward you.

Re: Ugly. Or something.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-18 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, yeah. I have a family member that I am considering unfriending on FB. All she does is make posts like "Fat people, stop wearing bathing suits in public. No one wants to see that!!" or "Fat people, you'll never be Barbie, stop pretending you're pretty!" And stupid shallow crap like that.
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Re: Ugly. Or something.

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2013-05-18 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, this is very different from simply saying that somebody is ugly (not even publicly, mind you).

OMG.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-19 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
My cousin made a post with a picture of herself beside a thick black woman with a caption that said "Why would anyone choose THAT over THIS".

Apparently her boyfriend broke up with her for the other girl. And apparently my cousin is the better choice because she's skinny.

I de-friended her as soon as I made a comment saying, "'Cause maybe what's on the inside of THAT is prettier than you can ever hope to be".

A lot of our family is overweight (I used to be myself) and to say that despite that? Ugh.

Re: Ugly. Or something.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-19 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
if you think unfriending may come with unwanted drama, see if you can't make a folder (name it something boring like people, 010101 or similar) then make it so you don't see the updates of people in that folder
(I think you can also go to their front page and change it so you only see important updates or none at all? This is what I did when a friend-of-a-friend I probably cannot unfriend without a slight social lashback)