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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-19 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2329 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2329 ⌋

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Re: crying

(Anonymous) 2013-05-20 08:14 am (UTC)(link)
I don't cry quite as much as you do, but periodically I do feel the need to weep in private.

Honestly, this is probably indicative of something that is upsetting you and needs to be addressed somehow. I find a little soul searching goes a long way. Try to think about what it is that is making you angry, hurt or humiliated. Think about why you feel that way and what you could do to either prevent it from happening, cheering yourself up, or better yet finding a reasonable solution that will clear up whatever conflict you have.

Recently I cried in public over something very minor and it alarmed me because i've never lost control like that before. I thought long and hard about it and realized I'd allowed myself to get caught up in other people's opinions of me and that I wasn't entirely happy with myself at that moment. I realized that it wasn't worth worrying over and I became more comfortable with my current situation.

If it helps, maybe you should seek out someone you trust that you can talk to about this. I find that helps too. Good luck and don't get discouraged if you can't solve everything in one day.