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F!S Anon Meme (the ??th)

Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with recaptchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

(Today's post is below.)

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

What genders are you and your partner?

[(Anonymous)]

What does that have to do with anything?

[(Anonymous)]

Everything, if it's a male trying to force his sexual kink on a woman.

[(Anonymous)]

Where did you get the idea of "force" out of what the OP said? OP stated only that their partner expressed a desire to do something, and that OP is uncertain if they're interested in it. There's no reason to infer coercion, guilt-tripping, or any other sort of attempt to "force" anything on anyone. And if there were something like that going on, it wouldn't be any better if it was a woman trying to force her sexual kink on another woman; sexual coercion is sexual coercion, and it doesn't make things any better for the victim if the perpetrator is also a woman.

But the point is, we have no reason to believe any sort of coercion is taking place at all without more information, and men are just as allowed to have sexual kinks as women are, and just as allowed to ask their partners if they're interested in trying them out, as long as they're willing to accept no for an answer.