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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-26 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2336 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2336 ⌋

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Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not a total asshole
I overheard her saying to someone on the phone "I'm just as much as woman as she is!" and the first thing I thought was "No, you really aren't"


These two statements would appear to contradict each other.

da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends on context. If this woman was rejected by a man/woman because she is trans for another ciswoman (Sort of the context I got, but IDK) then she...isn't.

I personally would never date a transman. I'd be friends with him, but...I just would rather date men who were born men.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Welp, gotta admit I wasn't born a man. I was born a baby.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
NA

Haha that made me laugh.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
If you're going by the standard that sex=physical biology and gender=society, then it's pretty simple. People are attracted to sex, not societal roles.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
They're actually attracted to the combination of both, generally.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
This.

The way people look, act, dress, speak, and generally express themselves all have a significant affect on whether another person will find them attractive or not, even if that person is of the sex/gender presentation that the other person is generally attracted to. This is why most people who have a physical sexual attraction to people aren't attracted to every single person of that sex - there are many, many other factors that go into it.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
DA. No offense or anything, but I wouldn't be able to date a transman either. Perhaps I just don't understand transgenderism (I have no idea what labels to use anymore, so do forgive me if that's offensive) and can't think of a transman and a cisman as the same. Mm. That came out wrong.

Basically I just feel no sexual attraction towards transmen, and I know quite a few. There's like a block in my head, or a voice, rather, that insists that transmen are not...male? Am I word vomiting here? I totally am, aren't I?

Like I said, sorry. I'm terrible with words. Just. To a lot of cismen and ciswomen, there's a very clear distinction between cis* and trans*-- in regards to their sex, anyway-- and it sometimes makes it hard, if not entirely impossible, to "accept" (sexually or romantically, I guess) a trans man/woman as you would a cis man/woman. Or something.

I'm shutting up now because I'm pretty sure I just messed up my whole point. And was probably being offensive as hell.

I obviously don't know how to use words.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I've felt attraction to one, but this is when he was fully dressed and pretty convincing.

My problem with dating one is that to me at least sex is a huge part of a relationship, and from what I understand many trans men do not have bottom surgery, and even if they do, it's often not the best of results.

I simply do not see that sex life working out, to put it bluntly.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
sprung forth, fully formed, from their father's head...? Wait, that was a woman, nevermind.

Personally, were I single, I'd never wanna date you, either. Mostly because you sound like a bigot. I was born a man, I just wasn't born male or with XY chromosomes. Wasn't my fault, really - there seems to have been a mixup in the sex-assignment department. You're kind of a dick for shitting on me for something that's not even my fault :/

Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
OP would be an asshole if they had said that.

Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
So everyone who has had any remotely un-PC thought is an asshole? The whole WORLD must be an asshole. Saying those thoughts out-loud to hurt someone is being an asshole, but thinking them... everyone gets that.

Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)
So everyone who has had any remotely un-PC thought is an asshole?

Yes. What point are you trying to make?
Assholes think like assholes.

If you think like an asshole and act like an asshole you are an asshole.

If you think like an asshole but you don't act like an asshole, you're an asshole posing as a human being.

If you don't think like an asshole but you do act like an asshole, you're an asshole.

If you don't think like an asshole and don't act like an asshole, you're a human being.

These simple rules should not need to be spelled out.

Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure it's impossible to be a total asshole.

And not be in jail.

Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Michael Bay.
Checkmate

Re: Transgenderism or whatever.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I would argue that even he has his redeeming qualities.

Table flip.