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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-27 07:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #2337 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Did you mean to write "disgusting"?

IA, but if that's how they think, the only way to change their minds is to get them to read it and realize it's not disgusting. Yelling at them and dismissing them for holding those opinions has no effect on their behavior and has never had an effect, (in any social movement, not just feminism).

So if we have to indulge their stereotypes a bit to get them to change their minds and in doing so, destroy the very foundations of the stereotype of girliness = disgusting; rather than rejecting their POV wholesale and thereby making it more likely that they will never, ever change their minds, why NOT go the first route? It won't kill anyone. It won't devalue the work. It's just rather eye-rolling and frustrating.