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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-27 07:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #2337 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2337 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 12:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope, that was me. I do so love little boy rape... except that's not what I was saying at all. The rape of young males, while terrible is less harmfull from a feminist persepctive than the rape of girls / women, because 1. feminism was established to protect women and 2. males grow up in a rape culture, and participate in that rape culture. It benefits them more than it harms them.

It's not ok, just not as bad. I am getting sick of making this point to people who don't want to listen.

FYI, I am also on board with OP of this secret. Bring it on.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 01:31 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not ok, just not as bad. I am getting sick of making this point to people who don't want to listen.

it's not as bad in the same sense that, like, being murdered instantly and painlessly is not as bad as being tortured to death.

honestly, i can't think of any point where the relative badness of the two is at all relevant, and it's pretty much always going to be the case that talking about how one "isn't that bad" is going to come across like you're justifying it or apologizing for it.

i seriously can't think of a situation where any reaction is appropriate to rape committed against a man or a woman that isn't "that's fucking terrible"? like, seriously, why does it matter that rape against men isn't really that bad? should we not be sympathetic about it, despite the fact that it's still a horrible thing? what's the importance of this comparison that you're making, if it's not a defense of male rape?

(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I really hope you never have a son! I simply can't imagine the hell he's going to go through when he realizes his sorrows are less important than those of other people, simply because of his genitals.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
you mean the same sorrow her daughters would have to go through?

(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
If that anon ever had a son she'd probably drown him.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
You are a bad person.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-28 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Just stop typing. You're making feminists look bad again. Really bad. And I'm sure lots of women would feel that you are not on their side at all when you say that their sons being raped is less horrible than their daughters being raped.