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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-28 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2338 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2338 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Saturday Night Live]


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[Homestuck]


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[The Dark Knight trilogy]


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[Star Trek]


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[Daily Show with Jon Stewart & Colbert Report with Stephen Colbert]


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[Neil Gaiman/Amanda Palmer]


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[Late Night Talk Shows]


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[Fruits Basket]


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[Defiance]


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[Phoenix Legend]


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[Kim Possible]


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[Rupert Graves]


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14.
[Hashirama, from Naruto]


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[XXXholic]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 047 secrets from Secret Submission Post #334.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-05-28 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't HAVE to have kids and settle down, you know. It's optional, despite what other people want you to think.
As for the PhD program - studying for a long time, acquiring new knowledge is an adventure in and of itself. It doesn't mean you have to give up your fantasies, on the contrary, they can be fueled by it. But, again, it's optional.

You are the captain of your own fate, OP. Don't live the life you think you should lead. Lead the life you want to lead.
Edited 2013-05-28 23:37 (UTC)

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-05-29 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
and if it does happen to be something you want to do, eventually you'll find ways to fit it into your life, and whatever comes of it i think you'll still find it fun and fulfilling

personally i'm not a very social person, sex doesn't matter to me, and i'm not even sure i want a romantic relationship now or ever

my main concern is just that i'm getting older, and sometimes it feels more and more difficult to find my fandom niches

op

(Anonymous) 2013-05-29 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
It is what I want. I even said that in the secret.

I'm settling down with a person of the same sex - so believe me, the society (at least the society here on the large) is not pressuring me at all ;)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-30 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding this so hard. I spent years convinced that I wanted children, but it wasn't until I sat down to really examine it for myself that I realized that I thought I wanted children because that was what was expected of me, not because I actually had any desire for them.

It's something worth thinking about, for certain.