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⌈ Secret Post #2339 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I think body acceptance should only go so far. YES it shouldn't matter what other people thing, especially if you are actually happy with how you look.

But if you WANT to look a certain way, you should try to get there.

I am not thin, and I see a lot of people harping on about how its important not to be shamed into changing how you look, but its also important to note that sometimes this ties into health & your own self esteem and there is NOTHING wrong with also wanting to change how you look.

[(Anonymous)]

But the issue is: at what cost? Weight loss dialogue never seems to think that cost is a bad thing; we're more willing to talk about it with plastic surgery.

In fact, the idea that there could be any long lasting negative costs/effects on an individual of trying to lose weight - mentally, physically, socially, spiritually, is something that is regularly denied. So making the choice to lose weight to be more conventionally pretty and accepted, is skewed by this imbalance in dialogue.

[(Anonymous)]

nice concern trolling here. if a person makes the choice to lose weight for themselves, that's their decision, and clearly whatever cost is involved is something that is worth it to them and is something they have most likely already considered before they even began.

if you do it right (and by that i mean not falling for diet bullshit or overexercising and instead actually making an overall lifestyle change), losing weight is not a terrible or stressful thing and shouldn't have any real negative costs or effects.