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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-29 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2339 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2339 ⌋

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ext_81845: hagu from honey and clover covering her mouth in a gesture of anxiety (overwhelmed)

Re: OkCupid

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-05-30 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
I used to have a profile there and I did find a decent FWB on it, he's a good friend and a decent guy but it did take me several months and I guess you have to be patient? In the meantime the obscene and offensive messages are pretty amusing, at least to me (of course I wasn't single when I made the profile so it's different for me, IDK)

To me, the funniest thing is how desperate to get laid these guys are, and as soon as you turn them down (even politely) they do a 180% and start in on how ugly you are, etc. This one guy incessantly messaged me and when I turned him down he was called me fat and said I was a butterface, etc. I mean, if he really felt that way, why did he obviously want to fuck me so bad?
ext_81845: hagu from honey and clover covering her mouth in a gesture of anxiety (overwhelmed)

Re: OkCupid

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-05-30 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Oh and sadly a lot of these guys do end up getting laid with people like my roommate who hooks up with all kinds of assholes, no matter how verbally abusive or shitty they are (seriously), sometimes even repeatedly. Maybe that's her thing or whatever (I'm trying not to judge her too much), but I seriously wish she had better standards only because these men need to learn how to treat other people especially women if they want to get laid in the future.

If you want an example, she fucks this dude she works with (really bad idea there if you ask me, dating people you work with is bad enough but casual sex with co-workers is no bueno) EVEN AFTER he told the whole office that she was a "slut" and talked all this shit about her. Why she would have sex with some asshole who slut-shamed her is beyond me. What's worse is that I have to endure even having this human piece of garbage in my house in the first place. She can do whatever she wants but UGH

Re: OkCupid

(Anonymous) 2013-05-30 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Yikes. Maybe she is a bit of a masochist (of the emotional kind) or just chooses for casual sex the kind of people she knows she'd never fall for.
ext_81845: hagu from honey and clover covering her mouth in a gesture of anxiety (overwhelmed)

Re: OkCupid

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-05-30 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe. She's in love with a guy... in prison for statutory rape. Honestly I don't know how I ended up living with her. She seems nice so everyone likes her but she makes really stupid decisions when it comes to relationships and is naive in a lot of other ways. Worse, she's the most boring person ever.