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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-29 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2339 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2339 ⌋

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Re: Lots of use of the word "shame"

(Anonymous) 2013-05-30 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Shame is to shaming what humility is to humiliation.

It is good to have some shame because it allows society to run more smoothly as you don't aggravate others by being self-entitled. It's not good to be shamed or made to feel like you should be ashamed for expressing yourself in a harmless manner. People should not be punished or derided simply because they choose to exist or be themselves in a manner that is inconsistent with the majority of public society. Diversity should be celebrated.

Nowadays, when people talk about shame, they're referring to the act of others' attempts to make people feel bad about being who they are, not the act of making people who do bad things feel bad. People have every right to live their lives as contentedly as possible so long as it doesn't infringe upon others' rights to do so, as well; they do not deserve to be bombarded by insults simply because of their particular character.