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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-29 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2339 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2339 ⌋

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forgottenjester: (Default)

Re: Why do...

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-05-30 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Because deep down they don't want to make it "easier" for their partner. They want to make it easier for themselves.

At least that's my experience.
silverau: (Default)

Re: Why do...

[personal profile] silverau 2013-05-30 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
This was my first thought, too.

(Being terrified of confronting people as I am, I've sometimes felt the impulse to reject people like that. But I never considered it for more than a second because I have a heart and common sense.)

Re: Why do...

(Anonymous) 2013-05-30 09:57 am (UTC)(link)
Shitty dumping isn't always about making it easier on themselves [or the other person, honestly] - I had an ex that seriously made me worry about my physical safety - so I dumped them in a way that wasn't exactly fantastic...but it wasn't because I lacked a heart or common sense.

Re: Why do...

(Anonymous) 2013-05-30 12:07 pm (UTC)(link)
That's not what this is, though. This is when people lose interest and then act like pricks until the other person dumps them. So, in other words, the person you dumped would have been then one acting like an ass, not you.
silverau: (Default)

Re: Why do...

[personal profile] silverau 2013-05-31 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
That's... kind of entirely different than what I was talking about. Of course if you were worried about your safety, dump them however you want. I'm talking about cases where the other person hasn't done anything terribly wrong.