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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-29 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2339 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2339 ⌋

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Re: Why do...

(Anonymous) 2013-05-30 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
They don't want to be the bad guy, and in their minds, they're less of the bad guy in the situation they construct than if they just broke things off with them. Because if they just broke up with them, they are ending something that their partner wanted - taking something away from them - whereas in the other scenario, something is ending that neither person wants anymore, so nothing is lost and they haven't done anything wrong.

I think that's the emotional logic anyway. Obviously it's loopy and discounts the fact that the process involves doing something wrong, but that's the thought process.