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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-30 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2340 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2340 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[DJ Qualls/Vanessa Lengies]


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[Resident Evil Revelations]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Alice in Wonderland - Johnny Depp]


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Re: Homophobic mom? Not sure what to do/need to rant

(Anonymous) 2013-05-31 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly think you're kind of exaggerating. You've stated you're bisexual, she said whatever. You haven't brought a girl home yet. Why do you even need to keep having this conversation? If she claims she'll be okay when it happens, why not just leave it alone until it does, and then see?
If your bisexuality isn't even currently being expressed in a concrete way for her to respond to, seriously, what do you even want her to do with it? So you're bisexual. Big fucking whoop.
It sounds to me a bit like you are constantly pushing for drama. Why MAKE it into a big problem? I would just back down, let things lie, and work on having a good relationship with your mother. And wait and see when the day comes what happens.

Re: Homophobic mom? Not sure what to do/need to rant

(Anonymous) 2013-05-31 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

Re: Homophobic mom? Not sure what to do/need to rant

(Anonymous) 2013-05-31 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not pushing for drama, it's not like I just say out of nowhere "hey, I'm bi!". She likes to announce it to me whenever she eats at Chick-Fil-A, I tell her that that bothers me, she wants to know why, and that's when I mention it (because obviously she's forgotten if she has to constantly ask). I'm not purposely going around trying to make it into a big problem, I only mention it when it's relevant to the conversation.