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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-02 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2343 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2343 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-06-03 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
I have no interest in cheating IRL. I would never. It wouldn't even be tempting. So when people present cheating as anything other than a symptom of patheticness, I find it hard to relate to. In fiction, it will make me find a character weak. But it doesn't always make for a bad story!

(Anonymous) 2013-06-03 03:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that sums up my feelings on it, too. Although I wouldn't say weak or pathetic, but reprehensible and selfish? Yes, unless there is an extremely good reason for it where the established relationship they're in actually abusive to them, etc.

However, what I also can't stand is when someone goads or seduces someone in a relationship and then acts like they're blameless for that person's cheating and the damage it causes the party uninvolved in the affair.

Yeah, the person who cheats should have known better, but if someone presses their buttons and wears away at their willpower to selfishly get what they want, then uh. No. They don't get to step back and act like it was ~someone else's choice~, and pretend that whatever damage was done to the relationship they injected themselves into wasn't their fault. That's just as scummy as cheating in its own right.