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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2347 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2347 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Jay from Red Letter Media]


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[Bob's Burgers]


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[CL from 2NE1]


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[Moriarty/Sherlock Holmes]


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06.
[Of Monsters and Men and Glitch (game)]


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07.
[After Man: A Zoology of the Future]


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08.
[Hetalia]


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09.
[Bubble Guppies]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 010 secrets from Secret Submission Post #335.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Guy Gamers

[personal profile] deenaa 2013-06-07 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Being a gamer (of either gender) does not define how attractive you are. It can, however, be part of how you view their compatibility as a potential partner.

If I were to date, I would like to do it with someone who understood and appreciated one of my most enjoyed hobbies to a similar extent I did. However, it would not make them more sexually attractive, and nor would it be more important to me to date a 'gamer' than someone who doesn't game but I have better chemistry with.

There is a difference between saying 'I think gaming is hot' and 'Only men/women who play games are attractive'. The first is a preference, the second a generalisation. The latter is as offensive as saying 'only girls with big boobs are hot' as opposed to 'I think big boobs are hot' - you're reducing a person down to one particular element and claiming that it is that aspect only that defines how attractive they are.

It's fine to have a preference. Everybody does. It's not okay to generalise.