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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-09 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2350 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2350 ⌋

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insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-06-09 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
You aren't though. Sorry I mean

But since you didn't keep it going beyond it's natural expiration, that's okay.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I kind of don't see how you're a jerk. If it was honest and casual, there's nothing wrong with that.
dreemyweird: (austere)

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2013-06-09 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I WANT THIS.

I mean, I would be upfront about not wanting anything serious, and there are certain non-physical things that may kill the attraction for me completely.

Buuuuuuuuuuut. I want really hot sex with someone who looks like one of my actor crushes. Fuck feelings. Fuck romance.

I need to get laid. :(
Preferably sometime this century.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
You've nothing to feel bad about. He got what he wanted and probably didn't even care about what you were getting out of the relationship.
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[personal profile] elephantinegrace 2013-06-09 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I've dated people for worse reasons.

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(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Background is of a blue sky

Text: In college I dated a boy who was a dead ringer for my favorite character at the time. Personality-wise he bored me, so it was a very "less-talking, more sexy fun times now!" kind of relationship. It was brief and casual, but ended amicably enough.

Even though it's been several years, I still feel like kind of a jerk. Sorry.

It was also totally worth it. Sorry again.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
If it ended amicably and, to the best if your knowledge, you didn't hurt him or leave him pining or anything, I wouldn't worry. I don't know if being honest with your reason for wanting to be with him was really necessary. As long as you didn't make promises you had no intention of keeping or outright lie (for example, say you want long-term when you only plan to stick around short-term) I don't think it's such a big deal. I mean, regardless of your initial motivations, there was always the chance it could have wound up being a love for the ages, right? So what good would saying "I only want to date you because you look like this character" or not getting involved in the first place have done?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I think I'm I tiny bit in love with you OP. :-)

(Anonymous) 2013-06-09 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong or bad, and if it ended well, I think that's probably a more successful relationship than a lot of them I've seen.

Though it is a little weird to see someone admit that they got with someone and enjoyed screwing them as a kind of one-sided RP. But it's hardly different than people who do the same thing because someone resembles their type, or a celebrity they like.
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[personal profile] iceyred 2013-06-09 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Going by the secret, it sounds like both of y'all got something out of this: hot sex.

I would not feel guilty about that.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-10 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Curious who said favorite character was.
nyxelestia: Rose Icon (Default)

It doesn't seem like a Jerk-ish thing to do

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2013-06-10 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Obviously we don't know the details, but from the sounds of it you two had a decent relationship, and instead of stringing him along you let the relationship end instead of turning bitter. If you both had a nice time together, I'm not seeing much harm done.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-10 09:46 am (UTC)(link)
LOL, I could've written this secret!

My ex boyfriend is literally a doppelganger for Obi-Wan Kenobi in ROTS. He was pretty nice looking, but ... pretty boring.