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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-13 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2354 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2354 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Kodomo no Jikan]


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[figure skating/Brian Joubert]


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[Stargate: Atlantis/ Sesame Street]


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[K project]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Married...With Children]


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[Homestuck]


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[One Piece]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Pokémon Black & White]


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[Phantom of the Opera 2004]


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[Iron Man 3]


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[Neverwinter Nights 2]


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[Almost Human/Total Recall 2077]


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[Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer]


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[Fire Emblem: Awakening]


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[A Bag of Hammers]


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[Without a Trace]


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[Big Bang Theory]


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[The Three Investigators]


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[Team Fortress 2]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 043 secrets from Secret Submission Post #336.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Well fuck.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I think a lot of what this whole demisexuality thing talks about is to do with socialization of genders.

Boys generally grow up in a culture that tells them it's okay to be instantly sexually attracted to strangers, whereas with girls, we're taught that the process should involve romantic attraction, a crush, feelings, and only then sex. I don't think sexual attraction is always necessarily instantaneous or even noticeable when it is instantaneous - you don't get aroused the moment you see a person, though you might be attracted to them. How you process that attraction in your head, really depends. You might think "I want to fuck this person" or you might think "I want to get to know this person and see where it leads". So the attraction is there, but whether you consider it sexual or just potentially sexual or just as something you want to pursue further because who knows, that's all in how you process these things.

That's not to say guys or girls systematically process things a certain way but I think gender and gendered sexual behaviour as viewed by society has something to do with it.

Re: Well fuck.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)
this post was thoughtful and interesting, thank you