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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-14 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2355 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2355 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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31. [SPOILERS for Naruto]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #336.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Aaw OP

Just let them have the space I guess. They may be slower than you at moving on emotionally when they associate a specific fandom with you. Clearly this has both hit you kind of hard. It's been several years and only now could I consider rewatching a show I associate with a friend I fell out with (although mostly my fault really, curse my anxiety. But it's taken years to not remember all the pain and sad when viewing it).
So they may go away from the fandom permanently, or just a little while and slowly move back in. You may or may not be the reason, but you don't need to blame yourself for it.

Suggestion, if you do want to post the fic: Maybe instead of saying it's for them, just post it. If you must explain why you're suddenly posting a fic for that fandom, say it's in memory of a friendship that went different ways (as some friendships do as we all grow up and stumble awkwardly through life. Sometimes it just happens). If drama happens, just politely ignore it (and post a secret here so I can give you a digital hug).

*hugs* anyway.

OP

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 08:07 am (UTC)(link)
thank you. this is a really nice thing to say and I appreciate it a lot. part of the reason I considered posting the fic is because the only place to find it now is a pw protected tumblr we shared so I thought maybe they'd like to be able to read it if they wanted without having to go that deep into what used to be and all that. but then I don't even know if they'd want to reread it. I'm scared if I post it without mentioning them at all that they'll feel like I was lying when I said I wrote it just for them or that I'm like... giving it away without their permission. it's a good story that I think other people would like and I'd be interested in other people's feedback on it, but not at the expense of someone I already hurt so much. :