[ SECRET POST #2355 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2355 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[dangan ronpa]


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[Star Trek: Into Darkness]


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(Les Miserables, The House of Spirits)


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(The Scarlet Pimpernel)


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[Coupling]


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[Norma Bates from Bates Motel]


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31. [SPOILERS for Naruto]



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32. [SPOILERS for Defiance, Episode 7]



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33. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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36. [WARNING for rape]



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37. [WARNING for sexual abuse]



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38. [WARNING for rape]



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39. [WARNING for self harm, suicide]



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40. [WARNING for suicide]



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41. [WARNING for RL shootings, death]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #336.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[deenaa]

OP, you need to accept something here.

The friendship is over. This sucks a lot, I know, but it's already happened. You will do yourself a HUGE favour in the long run if you accept this instead of hoping and pinning for the good ol' days. Reading this person's journals (especially if they are publicly whinging about the friendship breaking down, which is SO classy) and stressing over their choice to leave fandom is unhealthy and clingy and it doesn't help you.

Don't post the fic if you're only doing it to get their attention, either. You are not responsible for how this person feels about fandom now, and it's not on you to make them feel better. They might never get back into this fandom, or they might get over it in a week and jump back in happily. It's not up to you - it's not something you CAN fix.

It's time for you to think about yourself. Block this person, and STOP going to their journal/tumblr. Tell your mutual friends you don't want to hear about them for a while because you're making a clean break. Go do something fun with other friends. Give yourself time to heal and move on.

[(Anonymous)]

it's been almost a year since all this went down so I don't think they're coming back. they didn't make a post that was embittered or anything - someone just said 'oh hey you're all into __ now, what about __' and they just answered that they couldn't stand those things now because the thought of them turned their stomach. that's what made me feel the most guilty. I mean... I already feel guilty but I don't want to ruin the good things they have because lately they haven't had many in their life.

but intellectually I agree that all of this is excellent advice. I'm the kind of person who needs to hear it from someone else before I can really take it to heart though, so posting this has actually been really instructive and helpful to me. I'm really grateful for the responses I've received.