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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-15 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2356 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2356 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Saying "stop bullying and forcing your negativity onto us" is not bullying. Demanding the right to shit all over people having fun is and that is what naysayers and SJWs are doing. So keep it fun and quit your bullying. If you want to be negative, take it to a negative forum.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Since you apparently didn't read my comment, I'll copy the gist of it here.

There's a difference between "I hate this show, and you should too" and "I love this show, but this one thing bothered me, and I want to know if other people feel similarly." One of these belongs on a fan comm, the other doesn't. Pretending they're the same is also bullying and entitlement.

Accusing someone of bullying for having an opinion that you don't like IS bullying. Pretending that expressing discomfort or unhappiness with a single element of a show is "shitting all over people" is bullying. Demanding and enforcing a culture of "agree with me all the time or GTFO" is bullying. Take your own advice.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh gods THISSSSSSS

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(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
People having a different opinion about something than you and expressing it is not bullying. I actually can't think of a show, book, game or other canon that I enjoy that there isn't at least one thing that I'm at least slightly unhappy with, or that I wish they'd done differently. I like being able to talk about those things with other fans. I don't expect everyone to agree with me and I don't try to brow beat them into agreeing with me. I like getting different perspectives on issues. If people want to have fandom spaces that only allow positive comments about a certain fandom, then that's fine, and they should create those spaces! But that shouldn't be the default for all fandom spaces, and implying that anyone who isn't 100% happy with everything a canon has to offer all the time is a bad fan or a bully or is doing things wrong is dickish.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-16 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Did you even read the comment you replied to?

There's a distinct difference from "forcing negativity" on someone (aka jumping in on someone's squee post) and starting a discussion about something negative (aka posting your own post expression your own opinion). If you aren't interested in what someone's posted just stop reading it and scroll on down.

No one is going to hunt you down and make you read a discussion about something - positive or negative.