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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-17 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2358 ]


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Re: Misandry... Oh dear.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-17 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It should be. Because a lot of things that are considered misandric also effect women and LGBT. In fact a lot of things that suck for us in society suck for everyone. Men being the assumed breadwinner and women the homemakers sucks for anyone who doesn't want to go those routes. It made sense before technology and science made life easier. Evolution is misogynist and misandric.

Buuutttt... A great number of people have done a good job of presenting the idea that discussions about misandry are just 'angry white cis men' being melodramatic.

There probably are a lot of angry guys in those discussions but to them it's not different than feminists in discussions about issues that effect them. I hate that 'first world/white people problems' and other similar memes have attempted to shame people into not expressing their discomfort. The answer to someone upset is not to say "people in other countries have it worse."

Thank you now I feel sad and guilty for being sad.

Sorry a little off topic towards the end.

Re: Misandry... Oh dear.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-18 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Also Hi I'm a girl. I used to say I was an MRA until I realized, like a lot of feminist circles online, they are full of angry people(men and women, All races all sexualities.) who circlejerk about their anger until they are hostile.

They (MRAs and Feminists) do still have many valid points but I can't hang around either of them without wanting punch people after a while.
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Re: Misandry... Oh dear.

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-06-18 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'd avoid the MRA lable entirely, but I think you can consider yourself a feminist if you use it in actual real life settings. Aside from a few angry professors, most of the adults you meet who are calling themselves those tend to be people you'd actually be proud to associate with (as opposed to being embarrassed to be likened to)

Re: Misandry... Oh dear.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-18 01:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I's just rather not be anything. Especially not having other people try to tell me what I should consider myself.