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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-17 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2358 ]


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Re: Feeling really shitty right now :(

[personal profile] deenaa 2013-06-18 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
There's a lot of reasons parents say hurtful or nasty things. My parents did it under the guise of 'helping me', because y'know, yelling at a girl for hours on end about how she'll never get anywhere in life is so very constructive. Here's the thing - there will NEVER be a good reason for someone to maliciously attack you like this.

I can't say for sure, but it sounds like your parents are trying to guilt-pressure you into losing weight. Their comments are pretty deliberate and aimed straight at your self esteem. It's a controlling, manipulative tactic and the opposite of cool.

If they're doing this to you regularly, it might be worth your while to speak to a counsellor or therapist about it. This gives you an objective third party, someone on the outside to encourage you positively and to help you put these toxic comments into context and develop strategies to deal with them in the future.

*internet hugs if you'd like them* Try not to let it get to you, anon.