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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-18 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2359 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2359 ⌋

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[personal profile] wauwy 2013-06-19 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
I went to Wellesley, and I can assure you, the portrayal of Wellesley students in that movie was really, really fictional. Even for back then. "The most conservative college in the northeast?" Don't make me laugh. Wellesley had plenty of WASPy ladies, sure, but it had far more serious students from the arts to the hard sciences being hardcore about working in the world, being intellectual and radical, and not necessarily giving a fuck about how ladylike they seemed.

That being said, everyone should be allowed to feel as feminine or masculine as they want without feeling like a faker or that it's not genuine. If feeling that way is really what you want, I have advice -- practice.

There's a reason a lot of girls (and boys) start out by wearing their grandma's high heels and playing with mommy's makeup. It takes time to feel comfortable in that aesthetic, sometimes. Have fun with it -- look up makeup tutorials on youtube, scroll through fashion blogs, try on wedding dresses with a friend one Saturday. Above all, have fun with it and do it for the enjoyment of pretty things and feeling pretty -- don't keep comparing yourself to a highly idealized, not real standard of how you're "supposed" to look or seem.

Non ministrari, sed ministrare
Edited 2013-06-19 04:19 (UTC)