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[ SECRET POST #2361 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2361 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hetalia]

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[Charles Coulson (and indirectly, Avengers)]

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[No. 6]

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[Leto Brothers]

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[Harry Potter]

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[Xiaolin Showdown/Xiaolin Chronicles]

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["Zombies Took My Daughter"]

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[Wolf's Rain]

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[The Croods]

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[Phineas and Ferb]

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[Ouran High School Host Club]

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[Hetalia]

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[The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug]

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[Starsky and Hutch]

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[Once Upon a Time]

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[Hannibal]

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[Zoo Tycoon]

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[Monty Python]

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[Hannibal]

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[Teen Wolf]

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Nothing wrong with not wanting kids, y'know. Better than having a child you resent.
How rude. None of your business anyway.

Yes, how dare I show concern for the well-being of a future life.

Sounds like you'll be a great parent /thumbs up

Wow, what a good person you are.
Thank you so much for your concern.
My children are going to be planned and "no accidents". I personally think you have to be responsible when having sex.
My children will grow up in a non-smoking, non-drinking, no drugs and non-violent environment - in a new-built house and a garden. We also own 2 cats so they can learn how to live with animals, something I couldn't have.
We have no financial problems and I am willing to shut down my career for some years because I would rather raise them by myself than putting the little children into a day care, like some other parents do. I want to cook them healthy meals, look on their weight and do the homework together. If they show interest in learning how to play a musical instrument, I will support them. I have a Shamisen they can play with, too. My husband enjoys railway stuff and classical music, so there might be a chance our children will find interest in it too. We both like traveling and taking photos.
They will grow up bilingual at least and if they want, they can go later to an university in my home country or anywhere else (I don't force them nor will I judge them for their career choices, not like my own parents).

Are you or the others able to give this to your children? No? Then shut up.

in a new-built house

Are you going to live in a huge newly built suburb in a gated community too because ugh

Do you know you only have about five years left to have even children before you have to start worrying about birth defects and prematurity and stuff like that? You've got a pretty complicated ridiculously detailed life plan here and let me tell you hardly anyone gets all of their shit together before they have children.

You sound like the perfect helicopter parent ngl, I mean have you ever entertained the idea that if you have children they are going to be individual people who may not be keen on this lifestyle you have already chosen for them

Good god, you are being so unbearably rude it's actually baffling. Someone has a different way of thinking to you and instead of actually listening to them(you've completely ignored that they've said 'if' and not 'when' to their potential child's interests) you're insulting them and tearing them down based on the small amounts of information that they have given you in an online forum.

You must be a fucking delight to know in person, really.

Someone's a fucking loony.

I want to cook them healthy meals, look on their weight and do the homework together. If they show interest in learning how to play a musical instrument, I will support them.

That sounds like a...normal, non-helicopter parent tbh. What kind of shitty family do you have? And while the risks during pregnancy are greater at age 35, it's still about a 1 in 400 chance for down syndrome and a 1 in 200 chance for other various birth defects so it's not exactly...dire, expecially since medicine has advanced over the years. It really starts getting dicey around 45, but even then there's a pretty decent chance your kid will be okay. Jesus, what is even wrong with you tonight.

How fortunate and blessed you must be to have access to all those socio-economic privileges. Nice to know only rich people can have children. Also, good job degrading all unplanned children.

You are either the best troll or about to get smacked upside the head by reality when your perfect children have a million little problems that don't fit into your plan.

Me the best troll? I don't think so. My English is just a bit weird, I cannot express myself like in my mother tongue and I have opinions, that's all. This anon showed such a great concern for my future children and added a witty Sounds like you'll be a great parent /thumbs up so I thought I tell him more about my plans. I don't really understand why my comment seems to be such a big deal though. I am just a dreamer - but we're going to move into our house in a few months and I want to have children and want the best for them.

It is ok for my perfect children to have problems. I have problems, you have problems, we all have problems. I will support them.

And if they start to like the music of Rammstein, Feindflug or Hocico and start to dress in black, get tattoos and piercings and want to go to Wacken Open Air I will say "Like me in the past, I am proud of you child!"
;)

You do realize though, that if your kids turn out to have good social lives, (and wouldn't you want that for them?) Then they will be bringing over OTHER KIDS.

It's not hard to tolerate or pretend to like people. I do it pretty much constantly in my job. You're acting like she's some kind of sleeper agent who is triggered by seeing children who are unrelated to her and will mercilessly slaughter them where they stand

Omg, you are right! I haven't thought about THAT yet. What shall I do?
But I'm in my own terrority = I am the ALPHA female. I am then allowed to tell the Others if they're doing something wrong. I get somewhat control.

I will have to deal with it. For my kids.

Well good luck paying for therapy, then.

For the kid, not you.

You better shut your mouth if you have no facts on your hands and just assume shit. SERIOUSLY.

Facts about what? Children and child-rearing? I spent years working with kids for a living and I was the oldest of four so I pretty much spent an entire lifetime surrounded by kids and teenagers

I mean we're talking opinions here anyway and not facts, you've already made up your mind that everyone's kids aside from yours are shitty so whatever, that's a pretty negative opinion to have but have fun with it

Facts about what? Children and child-rearing? I spent years working with kids for a living and I was the oldest of four so I pretty much spent an entire lifetime surrounded by kids and teenagers

....and? So you think you have the right to assume everything you want?

I mean we're talking opinions here anyway and not facts, you've already made up your mind that everyone's kids aside from yours are shitty so whatever, that's a pretty negative opinion to have but have fun with it

Woohoo, opinions. WAIT A SECOND.
1. I didn't tell a stranger on the internet right on that their future kids will need therapy. Do you talk like that in real life? Poor parents.
2. I don't understand why it bothers you so much. And I am sorry to say that, but not everybody thinks like you. It is a nasty world we're living in.
3. you've already made up your mind that everyone's kids aside from yours are shitty so whatever => Damn, you know what I exactly think by just one comment on this community! How do you do that?

Edited 2013-06-21 12:55 (UTC)

Seriously what the fuck is wrong with you? Are you drunk or just having a bad night?

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