[ SECRET POST #2364 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2364 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[liveoddly]

Yes, this. All of this. (I'm bi/pan and have had two meaningful relationships, one with a girl and one with a guy. With the guy, I'm accused of being a special snowflake, told I'm straight, and told I only dated the girl for attention. With the girl, I was accused of being a special snowflake and a "fake lesbian" (despite never saying I was a lesbian), told I must be gay in the same breath, and... told I only dated the girl for attention)

I disliked I Kissed A Girl more for the video than the song, but I found both pretty loathsome. At the same time, the parody just feels kind of mean-spirited, and as I said in an F!S post a while back, I'm generally against any accusation that people are doing things "just for attention". Even if they are, it's not healthy for their fans (who may be lesbian/bi/whatever applies) to be told that if they come out they'll be called fakers.

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[greenvelvetcake]

Dang, people love to get up in other people's business about who they date.

[liveoddly]

Tell me about it. I had one friend in particular (using the term "friend" very loosely - at the time, I was a year behind in school, ill and absent most of the time to the point where several people didn't realise I still went there, and also just my usual aspie self, so I needed all the friends I could get even if they sucked) who not only spent about 50% of our talks making some variation on the "har-de-har pansexual sounds like you're attracted to pans" joke, but also accused me of being "a fake bisexual just like [mutual friend of ours]... she says she's bisexual but she's only hit on girls." He then turned around on both of us when we later started dating boys and said we'd lied to him about being lesbians. Mind you, he was also the type to go if-you're-bisexual-you-should-let-me-hit-on-you, sooo...

(my sister dated that guy for a while. shaaaaaame)