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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-01 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2372 ]


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[identity profile] galerian-ash.livejournal.com 2013-07-01 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear it, OP. It really sucks when something you love is more or less ruined by stuff like that.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-01 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy shit your friends are awful. I'm so sorry OP. And I think it's a pretty common thing to associate a negative experience like that. It's sad, but you are definitely not alone in that type of association.
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[personal profile] omorka 2013-07-01 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd drop the friends, not the fandom.
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[personal profile] iceyred 2013-07-01 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
This. Your so-called friends suck. Find a new group, a new forum, a new place to hang out, and talk to people who aren't jerks.

People like that will ruin everything. They won't stop with just fictional characters. Eventually they'll move on to other topics and ruin those too.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-01 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
if that were me it would've ruined the friendships, not the character. Christ, what a bunch of assholes!
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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-07-01 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Your friends sound like shitty people. I'm surprised you don't get these kinds of feeling around them constantly now instead of the character. I would. My advice is you should drop them like moldy yogurt and get new friends who aren't assholes.

It really sucks that the character is ruined for you. Maybe you can get new memories of her and with fandom so that they can replace the bad memories? I dunno. I hope the best for you, OP.
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[personal profile] sootyowl 2013-07-02 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
This.

I hope you find new ways to love your character, OP. You're friends sound horrible and are making something you loved tarnished because of their inexcusable behaviour.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-01 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, racism will taint everything it touches, and the people who don't experience it never understand how much it hurts. I'm sorry your 'friends' are shitstains.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-01 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Give them the fandom finger. Write a fic with your Hispanic take on the character and tell them to have fun visiting their Aunt Paula.

[personal profile] transcriptanon 2013-07-02 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
[Picture is the photograph of a large cat (a lioness or a puma, maybe?) running during the sunset or the sunrise. The scarce illumination makes the cat look just like a black silhouette, the ground like a black indistinct expanse of land, and the clouds in the sky dark brown with reddish-orange outlines. The sky itself looks a muted orange.]

I once told a small group of friends about a piece of headcanon I have for a character in our fandom: that I believe that the character has a Hispanic ethnic background. (The character is animated, and her ethnicity has never been specified, but she is clearly a Person of Color). My friends responded by unleashing a tirade of racist jokes targeted at the character, and acting incredulous that someone would think she's Hispanic--as if someone being of Hispanic descent is the most absurd thing they could image.

My confession is that this experience has completely ruined the character for me. I can't look at her anymore without remembering that incident and how angry and upset I felt. I know it sounds stupid and petty of me, but a part of me wants to drop the fandom over it.

Sorry. Just had to get this out. It happened a while back, but it's been bothering me ever since.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-02 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
I'm curious who the character was. :(

(Anonymous) 2013-07-02 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
IT doesn't sound stupid to me. (hug) :(
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[identity profile] agentofhate.livejournal.com 2013-07-02 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
How can you look at your friends the same way?
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[personal profile] ariakas 2013-07-02 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
This reminds me of the time a friend of mine flipped his shit when I mentioned that I thought a (faceless silent protagonist in fully concealing body armor) character named "Ramirez" might be hispanic.

No he had to be white! (According to said friend.) If he was hispanic they would have said something!

...Seriously, bro? What were they supposed to say, exactly?

(Anonymous) 2013-07-02 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
Probably Taco Bell or something :P
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[personal profile] ariakas 2013-07-02 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah I just.... how is a SILENT PROTAGONIST who we NEVER SEE supposed to "reveal" that he's anything other than white?

(Anonymous) 2013-07-02 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
I don't even care what his ethnicity is, so long as he DOES EVERYTHING
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[personal profile] ariakas 2013-07-02 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
I guess said friend wanted that everything to include lawn maintenance or car repair.
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[personal profile] shamanicshaymin 2013-07-02 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry you had to go through that, anon. Your friends sound like racist douchebags, and I suggest that you tell them to grow up and go fuck themselves.

Speaking of having POC headcanons for characters, people tend to go "lol black hedgehog" when it comes to the guy in my icon, but I always thought that if Shadow was human, that he'd be Hispanic. He's clearly a lot tanner than Sonic, so I can't see him being pasty white. Here's a pic of a racial diverse Sonic cast, to give a better idea of how I see him.
Edited 2013-07-02 21:27 (UTC)