[ SECRET POST #2374 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2374 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[A7X]


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03.
[Archer]


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04.
[x-files]


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05.
[Danisnotonfire/AmazingPhil]


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[Earth2]


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07.
[Saving Hope]


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08.
[Kim Coates]


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09.
[DeliciousCinnamon]


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10.
[Moyashimon]


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11.
[Lucy Lawless]


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12.
[Richard Armitage]


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[Chuck]


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14.
[Keeping Up Appearances]


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[Star Trek]


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[Hannibal]














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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 035 secrets from Secret Submission Post #339.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: advice?

[(Anonymous)]

She has told me that if he moves away she would just "Give up." When I asked her to clarify what she meant, she said she didn't know.


it means that she has a savior complex: she wants to fix him, to save him. she has made him her personal project, and if he falls and never gets up, she feels like she failed personally, and her pride won't allow for that

there is nothing you can do or say without making things worse, the decision has to come from her

Re: advice?

[diet_poison]

I think this is likely, or at least likely to be a part of it, but it's also not necessarily 100% of it. Probably shouldn't jump to such an extreme conclusion without way more info.

Re: advice?

[silverau]

Think the first part is likely true but disagree about the second part.

I think it would be helpful for OP to point out that he's not any better off depending on her for help (and meds) than he was at his parents' house; and that tolerating his crap is not helping him, but enabling him. I think if someone had pointed that out to me when I was in a similar state of mind, it would've brought me to my senses a lot faster.