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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-03 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2374 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2374 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[A7X]


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[Archer]


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[x-files]


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[Danisnotonfire/AmazingPhil]


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[Earth2]


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[Saving Hope]


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[Kim Coates]


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[DeliciousCinnamon]


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[Moyashimon]


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[Lucy Lawless]


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[Richard Armitage]


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[Chuck]


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[Keeping Up Appearances]


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[Star Trek]


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[Hannibal]














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tei: Rabbit from the Garden of Earthly Delights (Default)

Re: advice?

[personal profile] tei 2013-07-04 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
It's true what everyone is saying about it being ultimately not your choice, but at least for me I know that sometimes the push someone needs to make a difficult decidion is just someone else having the balls to just come out and lay down the truth, even if it comes off as too blunt/rude/pushy. If she's confiding in you about this she obviously respects your opinion. You saying "this guy is terrible for you and you need to end it" may not be the most fun conversation ever, and it may not make her break up with him immediately, but it might open another avenue of thought for her in the way that merely "I'll support you no matter what" doesn't. You can't force her, but you can let it be known that you do have a strong opinion, but still the choice is hers and you'll love her no matter what.

Then again, that's just based on the way I respond to advice. Sometimes it's almost a relief to have someone just tell you what to do when you're confused. But you know your sister better than I do, obviously.