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⌈ Secret Post #2377 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

As a lesbian, the problem I have with you and your kind is the same problem I have with bisexuals.

You don't have the same issues with the hetros as us, because you can pass of one of them. You don't deserve the same levels of understanding because, simply put, you don't have to have a problem. Every community out there is a place where you could belong, but instead you chose you martyr yourself to our cause, and expect to be patted on the head and welcomed as one of us? Not going to fucking happen.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

Jesus, you sound angry, and you've got some serious projection issues going on. I don't see where OP said anything like what you're claiming here.

And as for your problem with the bisexual "kind", as a bisexual woman in a relationship with another woman I most certainly can not "pass as a hetero" and would like to kindly tell you to go fuck yourself.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

You are fucked in the head and I hope one day you learn that you're part of the problem, missy.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

Biphobia is really disgusting, and it's attitudes like yours that cause bisexuals to have NO safe place at all, because staying closeted =/= "not having a problem." Fuck this noise.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

I agree. Even if it's not exactly a nice opinion, oh well.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

It isn't a "not-nice opinion," it's a shitty, bigoted opinion.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[(Anonymous)]

Seriously? We're going to go by "passing" and play the who's the most accepted in society contest?

Gay men and lesbians can pass too, if they're private about their social lives and/or don't date a lot.

And if we're going by that logic, anyone who is trans and can pass as their gender doesn't belong in LGBT either, right?

And if we're already going down this road, let's just get rid of the gay men because they have far more privilege then women.

And white gays? Definitely let's get rid of white gays, we don't need them.

Basically anon, congratulations; you are what is wrong with the gay community.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[thene]

LOLOLOLOLOLOL gold star. You should start everything you say with "As a lesbian...", that's so cool.

ps. 'You don't deserve the same levels of understanding' is like the most revealing comment ever. I think you need to work on how to understand people, because you suck at it.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[caecilia]

As a lesbian, I disagree with this entirely. The OP seems to consider themselves hetero-romantic, so no, I wouldn't consider them part of the BTLG community, but I think it's unfair to say they were "martyring" to our cause. And it's EXTREMELY unfair and also flat out wrong of you to say that about bisexual people. They most certainly do have the same issues with the "hetros" that we do, PLUS they get extra crap from gay people like you. They are alienated from BOTH communities. Don't speak for all of us. The problem I have with you and your kind, is that you're contributing to a rift between bi/pansexual women and lesbians and why would you want to do that, don't you want more women kissing each other? Why does it matter if some of them also want to kiss men? Are you just looking for excuses to exclude people? Stop it. They have things to contribute and the same need for support that we all do.

BTW I also "pass" because I don't look like a stereotype and I don't tell people I'm gay. Just because straight people assume I'm straight doesn't make me straight, it just makes them heterosexist and we should all be working together to fight stupid misconceptions like that because they are actually part of the societal oppression we all face.

Sorry to the tracking nonnies for all the edits I just wanted to change 'homos' to 'gay people'. I thought it was appropriate in context BUT I thought better of it after my initial anger faded.

Re: Feeling alienated because of sexuality - need to vent

[thene]

biphobia is like the most acceptable form of orientation discrimination, it's so amaze.