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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-13 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2384 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2384 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-14 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
Your mother sounds like a nightmare, anony. I'm so sorry she put you through all that.

My daughter, through genetics and things like fructose corn syrup, is bigger than other girls her age - she's 10. She was always slightly underweight for her age until she turned 7 and then within two years, she just gained about fifteen pounds. But I'd cut my own tongue out before I made her feel bad about herself. Instead, I stress choosing water and milk above juices, don't allow soda at all, and try very hard to shop outside the main aisles of a grocery store, make dinners instead of opening boxes. I also took her Wii away and drag her along for mother-daughter "bonding" time in the form of walks. I want her to have a positive self-image but I also want her to be very aware of her own health and fitness and the choices she has regarding both.

I hope am I doing it right.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-14 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
You are doing well.

Your daughter sounds a bit like me. I was underweight until I was about 8, and I reached my adult weight at age of 12. The funny thing is that most of the society is entirely okay with it, except my family will make sure that I know my place as that disgusting fat fuck whenever they can.

I'm hitting thirty soon. That marks like what, 15 years of disordered eating? Which is hilarious because I'm actually fatter because of it.