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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-14 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2385 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2385 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-14 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Not OP, but having been in that situation with a former friend who, in hindsight, displays every sign of having a narcissistic disorder bordering on sociopathy, manipulating people etc...
Sometimes friendships fall through because you realize what a terrible human being your friend really is and how toxic you are, and you run for your life.

And I must say, when I get a glimpse of that ex-friend's life through whatever few common friends we still have in common, I feel the same as OP.

[identity profile] galerian-ash.livejournal.com 2013-07-14 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been in situations like that, too -- but I still think it's pretty crappy to gloat over other people's misfortune. That's just my opinion though.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-14 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I think we have to know more? If her misfortune is that she cheated on her boyfriend "just once" and he dumped her, then yeah, karma's a bitch. If she was mean two years ago and now her husband's left her, I think it's still pretty horrible to gloat.

I've been in situations myself where I realized friends I had were seriously screwed up, and I'm better off without them. But finding out they'd fallen on hard times would only make me wish I could still help without getting mixed up in their shit again.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-14 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Same here man, same here.

I fell out of a friendship when I found out exactly how shitty my friend was and that they were pretty much using me for their own personal entertainment. So if I was to find out that something bad was going on in their life, I'd pretty much just say good riddance to them.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
First sign of having a narcissistic disorder bordering on sociopathy is to internet-diagnose everyone who you dislike as "having a narcissistic disorder bordering on sociopathy".

(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Do all the people you don't like do that? :D