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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-14 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2385 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2385 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I had a falling out with someone I would consider a best friend prior to the falling out. I don't get a lot of glee out of misery she has, other than finding out she isn't very successful. (This was a bone of contention, because she often insisted I had no ambition.)

I did, however, have one close friend that just ... flipped a switch one day, decided we were no longer friends, and spread a lot of shit around about me, actively trying to get our "mutual" friends to dislike me, literally trying to wreck every moment of my life. This was, BTW, post college, and she was post-college age. I get a lot of schadenfreude when I find out awful things happen to her, because she ended up being such an awful, jealous, manipulative person.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
I get a lot of schadenfreude when I find out awful things happen to her, because she ended up being such an awful, jealous, manipulative person.

Until someone's been in a toxic relationship like this, it's difficult for them to understand why some people would actually love to know that they are not the ones who were the problem.

If they were the problem, it would be their life that is crashing and burning. As it stands, the real problem in the relationship is the one dealing with the ashes now that they've set their world on fire in their dysfunction.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
That doesn't make sense at all. Terrible things happen to people whether or not they were at fault in a falling-out with a friend. This person was a lousy friend, that's why their house has been foreclosed on? idgi

(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Probably it's more that the personality that made them a lousy friend also affected everything else in their life. If you live your life as if nothing you do has consequences and you expect to be able to talk or bluster your way out of trouble all the time, that would very possibly make you behave horribly to your friends and irresponsibly in your business dealings.