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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-14 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2385 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2385 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I had a fandom friend I had to cut contact with because the relationship was too toxic. I don't wish her ill will - even if the majority of it was caused by her, there was toxicity on both sides so I accept my role in the disintegration of friendship. While I occasionally do a quick stalk of her lj, it's really more to see what she's up to out of curiosity than desire to see screw up her life (though I do see signs of her bad habits affecting her life now).

However, I have seen friendships end badly for other people, and witnessed the resentment and negativity eat at one of the parties for years. I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't let your bad feelings towards your ex-friend affect you more than in should. If you're checking her deviantart solely to see her screw ups, you're already too invested. Try not visiting her page for a while, and trying not to think about her, or thinking about her in indifferently and you might be surprised how much better you feel.