[ SECRET POST #2387 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2387 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

Wtf, are you fucking royalty or why is getting rejected equal to "losing face"?

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

If you lose face then you've got to club her to death to stop her bringing shame upon your family by telling people she turned you down. Of course if she says yes, then her dad has to club her to death otherwise he'll lose face within his community for letting her go out with you.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

Would you prefer OP had said "without feeling too embarrassed" or do you have to be royalty to have feelings? It's an innocuous phrase, geez.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

You are excluding the possibility that the anon isn't Prince Harry, and genuinely asking advice.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

Having feelings is not quite the same as being concerned about "losing face". That's a very specific phrase. It doesn't mean feeling embarrassed, it means looking bad in front of others. The OP might not have meant it that way, but then again, the OP might. Either way, there are nuances here you're missing.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

You seriously don't get why being rejected can be humiliating or embarrassing or make somebody feel shame and embarrassment?

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

Nope. Getting turned down isn't humiliating or any crap like that. It is something that happens to everyone. You just got to take it in your stride. What sort of moron gets worked up about crap like that anyway? They must be some real weirdo.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

The world is full of us.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

I mean

objectively it is humiliating to some people, whether that's a right reaction or not. and the fact that we're having this conversation anonymously over the internet should make it easy to keep in mind that a lot of people are serious weirdos. i agree with you that it shouldn't be humiliating! but that's a lot different from saying that it never is humiliating.

Re: How...

[(Anonymous)]

There's entire movies around the fear of rejection - in dating, jobs, friendships, fucking life. How mentally stunted do you have to be to realise people don't like rejection?