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fandomsecrets2013-07-17 06:58 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-07-17 06:58 pm
[ SECRET POST #2388 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2388 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Val and Matt]
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[My Chemical Romance]
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[Little House on the Prairie/GoT]
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[The Venture Bros.]
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[Once Upon a Time in Odessa]
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[Gabriel Knight]
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[Dangan Ronpa]
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[America's Cup]
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[Legion]
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[Trailer Park Boys]
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[Warehouse 13]
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[Sugar Bits]
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[Touhou Project, Assassins Creed, Madoka Magica, Rise of the Guardians]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 030 secrets from Secret Submission Post #341.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Lesbian with a weird problem
I'm not a lesbian, but the first time I kissed a guy was because all the girls in my class were getting interested in boys, and I actually wasn't (and wouldn't be until years later) but I wanted to know what the fuss was about so I kissed him, repeatedly, at at party. I know that's not quite the same as sex but it's the sort of stupid shit we do because we want to belong.
The whole "gold star" thing is bullshit anyway.
Your identity is not less valid because of what you did in the past. Don't feel guilty for you past - it's part of what makes you you - and that's not a bad thing. If you feel guilty towards the guy, and you're on speaking terms, you might feel better if you just tell him upright. But, you're in no way obligated to do so. You did nothing wrong. Don't fret on it, so you don't get into one of those mental loops that are hard to get out of.