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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-17 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2388 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2388 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Val and Matt]


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[My Chemical Romance]


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[Little House on the Prairie/GoT]


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[The Venture Bros.]


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[Once Upon a Time in Odessa]


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[Gabriel Knight]


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[Dangan Ronpa]


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[America's Cup]


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[Legion]


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[Trailer Park Boys]


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[Warehouse 13]


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[Sugar Bits]


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[Touhou Project, Assassins Creed, Madoka Magica, Rise of the Guardians]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 030 secrets from Secret Submission Post #341.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Lesbian with a weird problem

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-07-18 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
You have shit friends.

Okay, you must have heard the "everybody experiments in their teen years" spiel right? It's not just for straight identifying people who want to hide their bi-tendencies, or for recovering attention whores who have the grace to be embarassed about all that girl kissing they never really meant.

Sometimes people really do experiment. And it doesn't work out. Nobody said straight folks got to own that. You tried something, it didn't work. In your case, it wasn't so much trying to like guys as trying to be something.

Here's the thing though: You figured your shit out. Both as who you were going to present as and that you dont want to live a lie.

Now you just gotta work on finding friends who have better things to do then seriously judge you over dumb shit you did as a teenager. WE ALL DO DUMB SHIT AS A TEENAGER. Not always sexual, but find me any adult and you've found somebody who did some crazy retarded shit as a teen.

Your friends have a right to laugh at it, and you them, sure. That's what friends do sometimes. Laugh at each others dumb shit. But if it becomes too one-sided or goes beyond something you can also laugh at (which obviously this is a case of) into full on judgement or actual disdain, you need to find some people less full of themselves.

Be honest: Are any of these folks the kind that hate on bi-people too? Cause it sounds like that kinda flavor of bullshit judgement.
Edited 2013-07-18 00:04 (UTC)

Re: Lesbian with a weird problem

(Anonymous) 2013-07-18 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
OP

Be honest: Are any of these folks the kind that hate on bi-people too? Cause it sounds like that kinda flavor of bullshit judgement.

Definitely. According to them bi people are either straight and lying for attention (if they're girls) or gay and in denial (some girls and 100% of guys who claim they're bi). Oh and one friend recently discovered the existence of asexuals and now that's their latest group to hate on.

I guess they are kind of idiots but I'm not quite sure how to go about finding new friends now that I'm not in school anymore.

Thanks though. I probably need to just chill out and stop being so hard on myself.