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fandomsecrets2013-07-19 07:10 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2390 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2390 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
01.
[Karl Urban]
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02.
[Legend of Zelda]
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03.
[Pride and Prejudice]
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04.
[Shingeki no Kyojin]
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05.
[Les dossiers du Bell]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
06. [SPOILERS for 'Injustice: Gods Among Us'; 'Man of Steel']
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07. [SPOILERS for Welcome to Night Vale]
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08. [SPOILERS for Young Justice]
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09. [SPOILERS for Merlin]
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10. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]
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11. [SPOILERS for Umineko no Naku Koro ni]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
12. [WARNING for incest]
[Felica & Ryon Day, "Co-Optitude"]
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13. [WARNING for incest]
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14. [WARNING for suicide]
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15. [WARNING for abuse]
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Notes:
Sorry for late again, work's a bit busy this week.
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #341.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Does a couple without kids count as "a family"?
Around here we say that when you grow up you get to choose your family yourself, your relatives on the other hand are harder to get rid of. And with that, family is the people in your life that you love and care about, though it isn't common to say family out loud, more like an implied social thing, if you get what I mean (though I will be called Aunt when my close friends have children). Your best friend is just as important as your aunt or nephew when it comes to society at large.
Also family is the closest people in your life when it comes to blood ties: Parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, fist cousins and grandparents are family the rest of your blood relations are relatives (though a closer translation might be heritage, though you don't have the right tense for that to work, heritages isn't a word? right?). We don't have family reunions we have Relatives/heritages reunions, because family are the ones you interact with often, relatives are those whom share your last name, I go home to visit my family when I go to my aunts, but I meet up with relatives when I meet my second cousin (exceptions are made, especially in smal families*). And the distinction is quite strickt, and as a child you do get corrected if you use the wrong word...
It is a difficult thing to get right and it all comes down to definitions, but I believe that family are whomever the heck you choose to call family and it is up to you whom those are, and no one have the right to tell you differently.
*and quite probably other languages
*In large families not all aunts/uncles and first cousins will be counted under family, only the ones you are close to.
Re: Does a couple without kids count as "a family"?
(Anonymous) 2013-07-20 02:56 am (UTC)(link)I'm kind of having trouble saying things now, because...this is all just so interesting to me, and I really appreciate you sharing it all.
I guess the big thing is that, around here, everyone to whom you have some sort of blood tie is "family," no matter what. "Relatives" and "family" are interchangeable. You can say that your friends and close loved ones are your "chosen family," but the entire reason you toss "chosen" in there is because, if you didn't, people would look at you askance. I personally don't think that that's correct. I rather like the Norwegian system as you've described it quite a bit more than what I've experienced!