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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-21 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2392 ]


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iceyred: By singlestar1990 (Default)

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[personal profile] iceyred 2013-07-21 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't give a shit how or why she decided to murder her child. This woman is/was upper middle class and had everything going for her before she got on the crazy train to hell. If she had no reliable conception of reality that's because SHE CHOSE to have no reliable conception of reality.

She hasn't apologized for anything. You have sympathy for a worthless piece of crap who killed her baby with meth. Think about that for a minute.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
da

that woman who killed her child probably feels more shitty about the situation than you, so yeah, I have sympathy for her. I don't see what's wrong with that. (Do I think what she did was okay, or that she should be forgiven? No.)

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
Why should anyone care that the mother feels bad NOW? It's too late now.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
DA - because she did it because of a sickness in her head. And she's the one who will rely have to live with it. Obviously it is too late for the baby. But it's just thoroughly sad this situation came to be in the first place, but for the child as those who survive.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Look, I get that you are understandably grieving and enraged, but you are being incredibly hurtful, insulting, dismissive, and unfairly judgmental towards entire swathes of people suffering from addiction -- the majority of whom will never do anything so horrible and externally harmful as what tragically happened in your family -- based on your anger at one specific individual.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-07-22 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
No you don't. You really don't get it. You probably mean well, but you don't get it at all.
iceyred: By singlestar1990 (Default)

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[personal profile] iceyred 2013-07-22 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
People suffering from addiction don't suffer in a vacuum. Others suffer with them. They act in ways that facilitate the suffering of others. I honestly have no idea how some of the people in this thread do not understand that.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
If she feels absolutely no remorse or guilt for what she did, fine, I'll give you that she doesn't deserve sympathy. But honestly, I really doubt that. I doubt it hard. Your average addict feels a LOT of things - guilt, remorse, depression, anxiety, loneliness - all combined into a desperate, worthless feeling that keeps them in the cycle of addiction.

You don't have to take my advice, I don't care all that much what you think, we're both anonymous faces on an Internet message board. All I'm saying is that you might think about what got her to the place she is, before you condemn her.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Anybody who kills their own child is rightfully condemned.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
So someone who accidentally runs over a child should never ever be redeemed, either?

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

you did not just compare a meth head who willingly did drugs around her infant child while knowing the risks to a person who accidentally hit a child who darts in front of their car. you didn't.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
If we're going to be dealing in black-and-whites, we might as well go that extra mile.

Fact is we don't even know the exact circumstances of this infant's death. It could have died just from having breast milk that had traces of meth in it, for all we know. And yes, that can happen.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
Wooooooow