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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-21 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2392 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2392 ⌋

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Re: Suddenly Asexual

(Anonymous) 2013-07-22 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
If you're still sexually attracted to them (and you've experienced sexual attraction to them and/or other people in the past), then you're not asexual.

Asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction.

Your desire to have sex with this person has gone, that's all.

I can't actually offer a whole lot of advice on this, since I don't have experience in this area... but maybe it's just a dry spell for you? I have natural fluctuations in my libido, and I suspect the majority of other people have times when they don't particularly want sex.

It doesn't mean you don't love the person. And you said yourself you're still sexually attracted to them.

If it's really bothering you, maybe remind yourself what it is about the person you love. What is it about them that first made your heart beat a little faster, that first drew you to them? Just remind yourself of those little things as you go about your day.