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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-21 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2392 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2392 ⌋

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Re: Trusting people

[personal profile] making_excuses 2013-07-22 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
The thing about trust is that for some of us it does not come easy, for me it is about trying to share, share my thoughts and feeling and in return get the person I am talking with's thoughts and feelings and taking smal steps, and remember that trust is not something that you should test or try out or see if a person is trustworthy by doing something and then going "aha! I knew s/he couldn't be trusted".

Finding people to spend time with is at times hard, but it can also be easy, it depends on how you go about it and what your situation is.

If it is easier for you to get to know people online, do that! You can find a lot of wonderful and amazing people on the internet whom you over time can end up trusting, or you can start spending more time with people you know and like?
There is also a possibility to join a group of some kind relevant to your interest?,

When you socialise with more people you will in the end find someone you can trust, and it will not happen over night, love at first sight is a fairytale and like everything trusting someone is both a leap of faith and time consuming. Just take smal steps and you will get there in the end , I am sure of it OP!

And if you ever need anyone to talk to you are welcome to PM me here, or look at my profile and find my other contact details, and I promise you, you will not bother me and I will get back to you and be honest and try to answer anything to the best of my abilities.