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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-22 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2393 ]


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[personal profile] saku 2013-07-25 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
the wikipedia article on orientation is not very in-depth or accurate. i'm just guessing you might have referenced it based on the language you used.

gay and straight aren't really the same as homosexual and heterosexual though. the -sexual label is used primarily for describing one's sexual attractions. the asexual label is generally used in this way but even if you want to argue that -sexual is also by many people to describe their sexual and romantic persuasions (which is true, lots of people do use it in this way), many aces also use their respective label in the same manner. in my experience aces who are not aromantic tend to specify when asked about their orientation.

even if they don't though it's really nobody else's business what word they use. if it makes sense and feels right to them, then that's enough imo.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-25 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
True, Wikipedia describes it similarly, but I've seen it various places. The HRC website is one (they use "physical and/or emotional"), and I know I've seen it on a few others that I can't think of at the moment. Obviously not everyone uses it in that way, but I don't think it's necessarily wrong if people want to.

I agree that heterosexual and homosexual aren't really the same as gay and straight but it seems like a lot of people seem to be moving away from the first two and using gay and straight instead, while still using asexual, which has more in common with the other two.

Honestly I think it's mainly a semantic issue for me, but yeah...ultimately it's up to everyone to decide what labels to use for themselves.