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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-23 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2394 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2394 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-24 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
Except OP didn't say any of that. They just implied they can't enjoy it, for reasons unknown.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-24 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Which obviously has nothing to do with the imposition of gendered, misogynistic, homophobic sexual roles (why does the OP assume that only one man's cock can/should get sucked??). Nothing to do with the idea that cocksucking, like getting penetrated, is a weak thing to do, and since in a m/m pairing one man has to be "the woman" (of course!), obviously only one man will suck cock.

Can we please not pretend that a bunch of hugely culturally-freighted stuff about sex acts and gender and power isn't there just because the OP didn't spell it out?

(Anonymous) 2013-07-24 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
What irks me about the way you write this is that you skip a step. There's the incredibly irksome "feminine* guys automatically bottom" (this is real and a problem) and bottoms always deliver oral (this is not in any way reliably true in slashfic, but the association of such a basic sex act with dominance or submission can indeed problematic if it's attached to an author or a group of people rather than, say, a character's personal opinions in one story - some real people have this association, so placing it is only problematic if it is done consistently and always in the same direction).

* Whatever the fuck that even means - I know it when I see it, but the criteria are such a bunch of bullshit that it's hard not to start twitching.