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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-23 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2394 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2394 ⌋

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It's all about the definition of "love" you're using

[personal profile] silverau 2013-07-24 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
'Cause in my mind, if you "love" someone, it means you sincerely care about them. You want what's best for them. If necessary, you would be willing to sacrifice your own desires for their will-being.

I think a lot of people on this thread are defining "love" the way I'd define "affection" or "bonding." I think Snape had affection for Lily, and was attached to her, but he clearly showed no regard for her well-being. He only cared about her in relation to him. To me, that's not love.

I think that's where the argument comes from. I don't think anyone is really disagreeing about how Snape feels about Lily and whether the way he treated her was okay. It's just a matter of what words you use to express what feelings.