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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-24 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2395 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2395 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls in School]


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03.
[Welcome to Night Vale]


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04.
[Gerard Way and Frank Iero]


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[Mastumoto Jun]


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[Macdonald Hall]


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[Downton Abbey]


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[Generator Rex]


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[Neil Oliver]


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[Star Trek]


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[Star Trek: TNG]


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[The Vampire Diaries]













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kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: be honest

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-07-25 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I never said it's not valuable. I'm having trouble seeing it as satisfying though, personally. Also as we were talking about a plan B, I wonder what theirs is. I mean, say you divorce and haven't been on the job market for 10 years. I have a friend who was home with her kids for like 8 or so years. Now this woman is incredibly, incredibly intelligent. But it was dead hard getting employed after that gap, and she's working way below her abilities now.

Re: be honest

(Anonymous) 2013-07-25 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
OMG, just because YOU don't see it as satisfying doesn't mean TONS of people do. And believe it or not, lots people have, I don't know, *FAITH* in their good marriage.

Stop being so obtuse and judgy.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: be honest

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-07-25 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I honestly don't understand placing so much faith in one person, I guess. I always assume relationships CAN go wrong.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: be honest

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-07-25 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess that just reflects a difference in how people approach partnerships?

I don't know, I'm single right now and fine with it, but eventually I want to get married. I don't mean like "married until something goes wrong" either. I want to find someone to whom I can be committed for life, and he to me, and if something goes wrong, we'll work on it. Marriage isn't supposed to be easy. Relationships aren't easy. I don't view life partnership as being transient.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: be honest

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-07-26 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
I guess that's the difference, then. I see everything in life as inherently transient, if only because no-one's getting out alive.

Re: be honest

(Anonymous) 2013-07-26 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Let's be real, they also have faith that their spouse isn't going to suddenly be diagnosed with cancer or be hit by a bus on the way home from work. Also, one person having faith in the relationship doesn't always translate to BOTH people having faith in the relationship (unfortunately). Nothing wrong with planning in some small way for the worst (like maintaining some viable job skill) to ensure you'll be able to land on your feet if something goes awry.