[ SECRET POST #2395 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2395 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls in School]


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03.
[Welcome to Night Vale]


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04.
[Gerard Way and Frank Iero]


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[Mastumoto Jun]


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06.
[Macdonald Hall]


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[Downton Abbey]


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[Generator Rex]


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[Neil Oliver]


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[Star Trek]


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[Star Trek: TNG]


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[The Vampire Diaries]













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Comments

Re: be honest

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Yeah, it does. It also makes it sound like some kind of priesthood.

Ngl one other thing that reads as red flag to me is ' I've lived through horrific and terrible damage'; this goes for most of the other people I know who've announced they'd like to get into the psychotherapy profession (including me - I considered it briefly five years ago, and later got into a different career that I find very fulfilling). That is essentially signing up to get triggered on a daily basis; I worry how people can be sure they could take that emotionally. Worse when they might have to (as you indicated) deal with the exact kind of people who had CAUSED them the damage, eg. pedophiles.

Others aren't themselves particularly damaged but are so fluffy they seem to just want to be a professional best friend. There's that alchemical overlap between the roles of therapist, friend and priest that I feel is underexamined. I am kind of biased due to having once studied the history and philosophy of psychology, which imo is something people should do before/as well as studying psychology or counselling.

Re: be honest

[(Anonymous)]

SA

Yes, it is really common for victims of trauma, particularly long-term trauma, to seek out helping or caring roles in life. I'm not really worried about being triggered by my clients or about transference/counter-transference. A lot of water has gone under the bridge since my damage was done to me. Decades of recovery make a difference, I think. I haven't found a population that really bothers me yet while a lot of students in my classes have been very clear and vocal in refusing assignments. Another reason I decided to get training was so that I would "do no harm".

Tbh, I am worried more about being able to challenge my clients when they are stuck and with being able to terminate therapy as it should be when the course is run.

I have a great deal of respect for the people and responsibilities involved in counseling. I've had/met/known great ones and really bad ones in my time. I don't have any illusions about myself or my abilities, at least I don't think I do, but I aspire to be a good whatever it is I will be after schooling is finished (it's early enough in the process that I haven't had to specialize. That I'm still working on.)

BTW, I thank you for pointing out the overlap between therapist, friend, and priest: I'd not heard that phrased that way before and it's provocative.