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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-24 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2395 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2395 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls in School]


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03.
[Welcome to Night Vale]


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04.
[Gerard Way and Frank Iero]


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[Mastumoto Jun]


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[Macdonald Hall]


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[Downton Abbey]


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[Generator Rex]


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[Neil Oliver]


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[Star Trek]


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[Star Trek: TNG]


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[The Vampire Diaries]













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Re: be honest

(Anonymous) 2013-07-25 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
SA

Yes, it is really common for victims of trauma, particularly long-term trauma, to seek out helping or caring roles in life. I'm not really worried about being triggered by my clients or about transference/counter-transference. A lot of water has gone under the bridge since my damage was done to me. Decades of recovery make a difference, I think. I haven't found a population that really bothers me yet while a lot of students in my classes have been very clear and vocal in refusing assignments. Another reason I decided to get training was so that I would "do no harm".

Tbh, I am worried more about being able to challenge my clients when they are stuck and with being able to terminate therapy as it should be when the course is run.

I have a great deal of respect for the people and responsibilities involved in counseling. I've had/met/known great ones and really bad ones in my time. I don't have any illusions about myself or my abilities, at least I don't think I do, but I aspire to be a good whatever it is I will be after schooling is finished (it's early enough in the process that I haven't had to specialize. That I'm still working on.)

BTW, I thank you for pointing out the overlap between therapist, friend, and priest: I'd not heard that phrased that way before and it's provocative.