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I was visiting my aunt and her family and I am really starting to worry for her

She is a stay at home mum and has my cousins are both legally adults but neither have moved out. And she has no life what so ever. She concentrates all her energy on cleaning and criticizing her children and husband. Honestly they can not grab a cracker without her coming up and telling them they are doing it wrong, then going on a long rant of how they are doing it wrong an then insisting on doing it for them. As her family basically withdraws in their room/behind the computer when she is there.

So I just spent two days trying to tell my cousin to try and move the fuck out but it's so difficult to talk to them. Thing are always done for her so she is just really reluctant to do thing by herself. But lately she is starting more and more arguments with her mother so I am really worried that someone is going to get hurt.

So yeah I just needed to vent. Anyone else have this kind family trouble?

"SAHP"

Well, there's your problem.

I suppose it would improve if she had a job

Or just anyone else to bother

Wow, my mom's just like that. She had no friends at all, and not because nobody wanted to, but because she pushed everyone away. She was this ball of anger and stress, entirely focused on us and on hating my dad (he did screw her over big time, but that was 17 years ago). I moved out 3 years ago and my sister, last year. At first she was really depressed, so much that I considered taking a year off college to take care of her, but now she's so much better it's ridiculous. She's really calm, goes out with friends every week, and even talks to my father instead of telling us to say this or that to him. I think she couldn't really get over what my dad did to her, and that made her super controlling and stressed, so when stopped being responsible for us, she rerouted that energy to herself.

Well that gives me some hope. I keep on hearing that she used to be a lot saner so she might be able to get back on her feat.

My mom is a little...unpredictable - but most of the family is pretty sure it's due to having an undiagnosed mental illness.

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