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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-28 03:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #2399 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
If more women said they liked domestic dudes, maybe more domestic dudes would step up to the plate. Fuck knows we need more acceptable gender role differences for men.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
+1 to this.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Sadly, I think men know that a lot of women like domestic guys - which is why you get the gross MRA wankers bitching about society emasculating men and expecting them to do "women's work" and keeping them from fulfilling their roles as providers and bread-winners, etc etc etc...

Mind, I don't disagree with you, I just think the majority of men do, unfortunately :/

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
But that's not true.

Men being domestic isn't considered acceptable by the overwhelming majority of women, and MRAs are entirely separate to that.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 12:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you have a source for that? It kind of goes against "common wisdom," (i.e. that virtually all women want their partners to help out around the house more), and I'd be curious if someone's done some proper research on it either way.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 01:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Cool story, bro.
Stats or GTFO.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 01:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, I keep saying this constantly. That I like guys who love to cook and bake, that I like guys who want to take care of kids, that I like sensitive guys and guys who are not ashamed to cry. Do you know what types of people constantly mock me for that? Guys.
"Oh you want a pussy-whipped loser, figures"
"Oh haha, you want a she-male?"

Maybe more men should just admit that they shit on gender norms.

In my experience, women talking about liking men who don't want to live up to sexist stereotypes can't change anything. Because the brodude army constantly shuts them up and goes "oh nononono, you have to want a MANLY man. It's the law of the jungle, bitch"